Healthy Autonomy

Workshop So05: Sunday, Oct. 23, 2016, 11:00 am – 01:00 pm

Not all mothers love their children. If a child has experienced openly, covertly, directly or subtly, rejection, hatred, or even attacks of destruction, the first relationship in life is based on, not to love, but to fear. The child experiences itself alone and powerless and is additionally confused by an environment which maintains the idealized image of an "always loving mother."

Children are dependent; destructive feelings and violence of the mother can neither be understood nor placed, the child cannot change anything, nor leave. The desire for love, closeness and contact with the mother is contrary to the fear of the mother, the need for protection. Existential threat as a "normal state" in childhood leads to the development of severe to extreme survival strategies, affecting all relationships, including the upbringing of their own children and leads to physical and mental stress limits, over the years.

In the workshop, we deal with aspects of affected persons and the impact on the "I", the identity and own will.

Elfriede Wimmer, born in 1960, widowed, 3 adult children. Naturopath for psychotherapy. Primary and Further Education: Holistic Psychotherapy, body-oriented methods, grief counseling, Systemic Constellations, Collective systemic process lineups, Voice Dialogue, exploring the concerns set.

Workshop So04: Sunday, Oct. 23, 2016, 11:00 am – 01:00 pm

• What profession have I chosen?
• Why have I chosen this job?
• How did I conduct myself during my professional training?
• Have I maintained my occupation?
• Did I feel qualified/competent?
• How did I create the beginning of my professional career?
• What professional decisions did I make?
• Who or what guided me in my career decisions?
• Have I determined my profession freely or did I let myself be defined?
• Am I suffering from occupational depression?
• How do I see myself today in my profession?
• Or have I already withdrawn from my job?
• Why am I not happy in my job?

In the workshop, and based on these questions, we will discuss the different "I-identities" that one assumes in the course of a professional life. Drawn participants will get an opportunity to identify and state their current professional issues working with the method "self-encounter with the sentence of concern".

Welcome are consultants, coaches and constellation facilitators as well as employees and employers.

Gerlinde Fischedick. Psychological System therapist and consultant, mediator and lawyer, lives in Hanover and Celle.