The trauma of the "non-biological child" ( Kuckuckskind)
In this workshop, I will explain this deep-seated trauma. This is about the desperate search for the own "I"-identity and one’s own place in life. The mystery of denied paternity leads to a variety of difficulties in one's own family system, in the environment and subsequently in own relationships. Frequently, affected persons feel that they do not belong, feel bad, are unstable and feel blockages in interpersonal contact. They feel strange in their own family, in other groups and social contacts. The ability to bond with other people is characterized by uncertainty and unstable self-esteem. These children have two fathers, one social and one biological. It can bring liberation when the truth finally gives way to a lie. From my own biography I have experienced deep healing through the constellation work. In my workshop, I want to exchange my own experience, as well as the effects of other family secrets with the participants. There is the opportunity to experience a corresponding individual, thematic constellation.
Gila Ring, born 1954, mother of 3 adult children, systemic single couple and family phlebotomist (IFW), teaching therapist (IFW) with Prof. Müller-Egloff Munich, respiratory therapist, supervisor with 3-year body-therapeutic intensive training (urodynamics) with Gabriell St.Claire and Michael Please. Since 2011 further education with Prof. Franz Ruppert with the multigenerational trauma therapy and the identity-oriented psychotrauma therapy (IoPT). Own seminars since 1995. Since 2008 living in Switzerland with own institute.